Some of our elders feel that a power-of-attorney is not necessary, because they already have a joint bank account with one of their adult children. Thus, if the elder becomes mentally incapacitated in the future (due to Alzheimer’s, dementia, stroke, etc.), then the adult child would still be able to pay the elder’s bills using the joint bank account.
Generally speaking, that’s true about paying bills.
However, a joint bank account will not give the adult child legal authority to handle any of his or her elder’s legal affairs, such as:
Communicating on the phone with the elder’s financial institutions or health insurance providers
Signing legal documents such as pension affidavits or pooled Trust applications
Administering any accounts that are solely in the elder’s name
The power-of-attorney is one of the most essential documents in planning for the long-term care of our elders, and it is one of the most straightforward to complete. It is very important to create a power-of-attorney before the need arises. If your elder does not have a power-of-attorney, please contact our office to arrange one today.
Who’s the most powerful group in America today? Is it the Democrats? The Republicans? The 1%? In my humble opinion, the most powerful group in America today are siblings in their 50s and 60s.
No matter their political slant or income level, siblings in their 50s and 60s are collectively responsible for some of the most important decisions that shape families and communities across New York and across the nation.
These decisions may include:
How to provide care for an elderly parent
Whether to sell a family home
Who will have power-of-attorney in the event of an elder’s mental decline
How to provide for the next generation through Wills, Trusts or Inter Vivos Gifts
Of course, not everyone in this age bracket has a living parent, a child, or even a sibling. But those who have even one of these living relatives will typically feel a level of responsibility for some important financial planning and decision-making.
Some siblings have an easy time communicating about these topics, and others have a harder time. Both scenarios are normal. What’s important is that you seek input and counsel so that you (and your siblings) can make the most informed decisions possible.
This is a scenario that you and your family must be aware of, especially if you are the rightful owners of inherited property also known as “heirs’ property”…
Your’re spending time with your siblings at the family property when the phone rings:
“We’re interested in buying your property,” the caller says.
One of your sisters is very interested. The other siblings have mixed feelings, so the family clearly needs to discuss the matter among themselves.
However, that real estate investor is likely to call back again on another day. The investor might actually offer to buy your sister’s share of the property for a few thousand dollars. If she agrees and signs the paperwork, then that investor will become a co-owner of the property along with you and your other siblings. The title might actually appear as if the investor is the true owner of the entire property.
When joint ownership of heirs’ property is divided in this way, it may result in long legal battles with complex issues. Some common claims and procedures in these situations include the following:
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Waiting too long to resolve these issues is not wise. Legal representation is advisable, and prompt action is the best approach to try and salvage the property or its fair market value.
No one wants to feel played for the fool, especially not by a family member. But it is not uncommon for serious disputes to arise among family, especially when money and property are involved.
When seeking legal counsel about an intra-family dispute, it is important to understand the following:
You may have a valid legal claim, but litigation is usually NOT quick or inexpensive. Litigation may not be the best first course of action for your situation.
In New York the civil courts require plaintiffs and defendants to make a good faith effort to settle or resolve issues within a case before it can go to trial. Therefore, settlement or informal mediation is an approach that some attorneys might take to try and resolve a case early on.
In reality some intra-family disputes can be alleviated through conversation. It may not be easy, and it might not be instant, but in some situations it is possible to talk things through to a resolution.
If you are at an impasse with your relative(s) regarding property, estate, or business, the Law Office of Isa Abdur-Rahman, PLLC, is available for an initial consultation about options for your situation.
Collaborating in business is based on trust. However, insisting on a written contract with a collaborator is not a sign of distrust. The contract serves several important purposes for your entrepreneurial venture or real estate investment, such as the following:
Clarifies the financial terms of the collaboration (who contributes what, who gets what).
Specifies the duties/obligations of each party (who does what).
Manages expectations (what are the benchmarks, timelines and deadlines).
Contracts for collaboration might take the form of a joint venture agreement, LLC operating agreement, independent contractor agreement or other forms. The more detail is included within your agreement, then the more clarity you and your partner(s) will have to execute the vision successfully.
More families are implementing “legacy transactions” to accomplish their quality-of-life objectives. A legacy transaction is the sale or transfer of an asset to a younger member of the family, whether outright or in trust.
A legacy transaction may be useful for a variety of purposes, including the following:
An older family member downsizing from a larger home to a smaller condo or co-op
A younger family member purchasing a first home
Leveraging a property to get cash for retirement using a forward mortgage instead of reverse mortgage
Transferring assets for Medicaid planning purposes
Depending on the market conditions and the family’s objectives, “keeping it in the family” with a legacy transaction may be more advantageous than an institutional product or a brokered transaction.
The “family office” generally refers to financial professionals whose work is dedicated to one or just a few very wealthy families. The idea is that the wealth of these families is so massive that it warrants an entire financial firm dedicated only to them.
Most families do not fit into this category, but the wealth of any family is of the utmost importance to that family. Therefore, every family should have at least two components in place to make sure their financial health is kept priority: (1) access to good advisors, and (2) the habit of talking as a family about financial matters.
These two components will empower any family to steadily improve its financial position over time, accomplishing such goals as real estate purchases, business start-ups, and generational legacies.
It’s great that we have Facebook, WhatsApp and various social media tools to keep in touch with friends and family. However, the legal system has not yet evolved to allow every matter to be handled online. Knowing your family members’ physical addresses is vital to certain important legal matters, such as probate of a Will or conveyance of property via intestacy.
It may be wise to have at least one family member designated as the “registrar” of family information — at least one registrar for each group of siblings. The registrar can keep written record of names, residence addresses, phone numbers, email addresses, etc.; and that information may even be stored in the cloud.
Ideally, there should not come a situation where one sibling has gone off on his or her own for one reason or another, and no one knows how to get in to contact with him or her.